What do we say to innocent people, living in temporary tents, seeking shelter, anguished and homeless, yearning for warmth and justice, dignity and decency in a cruel cold world?
How can we be there for each other at our time of need?
Einstein meets Job today, with what is hopefully helpful comforting wisdom of perspective beyond the physical anguish of the present moment.
How do we offer true comfort to each other’s despair?
And how do we reassure ourselves when our own strength falters?
One classic response is to invoke a broader perspective. We humans, tethered to the present, often judge our entire lives through the narrow lens of the moment we’re enduring. The promise of a brighter future—that today’s anguish is but a fleeting storm within the vast and beautiful expanse of life—can offer the hope needed to take another step forward.
Albert Einstein, in a letter to the widow of his dear friend Michele Besso, captured this cosmic perspective with poetic grace:
“Now he has again preceded me a little in parting from this strange world. This has no importance. For people like us who believe in physics, the separation between past, present, and future has only the importance of an admittedly tenacious illusion.”
Eliphaz of Yemen tries this approach with Job. In one of his more eloquent moments, Eliphaz tried to comfort Job by telling him that if he truly is righteous, God will restore him and the suffering will be over. His suffering, Eliphaz argues, is temporary, a blip in the grand narrative of divine justice.
וְיָדַעְתָּ כִּי־שָׁלוֹם אׇהֳלֶךָ וּפָקַדְתָּ נָוְךָ וְלֹא תֶחֱטָא׃
“And you will know that your tent is at peace; and you will visit your habitation, and none shall be amiss.”
Job. 5:24
The latter part of the verse is debated by translators. “Visit your habitation” is one way to make sense of the Hebrew words ‘U’fakad’ta Na’vecha”. The Gender-Sensitive JPS translation suggests:
“When you visit your wife you will never fail.”
In other words - these hopeful words suggest a future in which Job and his wife not only rebuild their lives and homes - but also find the energy to love again, to make love again, and to have the trust and will to have children again in a cruel world. And they will succeed in repopulating the world and raise another family.
Is this conditional promise - whatever the meanings may be - comforting or cruel? Maybe it contains both.
Eliphaz is promising peace and renewal, maybe even love and erotic pleasure - if only Job just holds onto faith.
The logic is simple: this moment, however agonizing, is not the whole story.
It’s an idea that reverberates far beyond the Book of Job, echoing in Einstein’s words of comfort as well.
Einstein’s insights echo Eliphaz’s intent: the present is transient, a shadow in the vast continuum of existence.
And yet, there’s a stark difference between Einstein’s compassionate detachment and Eliphaz’s rigid theology. For all his lofty rhetoric, Eliphaz fails to meet Job where he is. Job’s grief is raw, immediate, and resistant to abstract assurances.
Eliphaz's interactions with Job have been critiqued for their lack of empathy and rigid theological stance. His approach exemplifies how not to empathize with someone in distress. Instead of offering comfort, Eliphaz's long-winded speeches and argumentative nature crush Job's spirit, failing to provide the relief and encouragement that true empathy would offer.
The big picture and future hopes can be helpful and hopefully - but can also do more harm instead.
Sometimes, it’s not about offering a broader perspective but about acknowledging the pain in front of you in all its raw and brutal reality.
Hope, like faith, cannot be imposed; it must be nurtured gently, with empathy and patience. As we walk the valleys of our own or others’ sorrows, Job reminds us today, with Einstein’s help, that comfort begins not with answers, but with humble presence.
May the vision of safe homes and tents with roofs of peace offer some comfort and optimism for so many people uprooted in the world right now, on the eve of this sacred holiday of Christmas, and just ahead to Hanukkah.
May we be here for each other’s lament with sensitive care, and help imagine together, gently and wisely, a much better future with the courage to love and trust again, able to light up every night with glimmers of renewal, justice and joy.
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